To be on that list, you have to love me for my strengths and struggles. “I carry a small sheet of paper in my wallet that has written on it the names of people whose opinions of me matter. “ Perfect and bulletproof are seductive, but they don’t exist in the human experience.”īelow, read five more inspiring quotes from Brown’s new book. “When we spend our lives waiting until we’re perfect or bulletproof before we walk into the arena, we ultimately sacrifice relationships and opportunities that may not be recoverable, we squander our precious time, and we turn our backs on our gifts, those unique contributions that only we can make,” says Brown. The powerful quote resonated with Brown, a research professor at the University of Houston Graduate College of Social Work, who gave the blockbuster TEDTalks “ Brené Brown: The Power of Vulnerability” and “ Brené Brown: Listening to Shame.” In the introduction to her book - which arrives on shelves today - Brown riffs on Roosevelt’s words, which she says perfectly encapsulate her research into why we find being vulnerable such a hard thing to do. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood who strives valiantly who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming but who does actually strive to do the deeds who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions who spends himself in a worthy cause who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly. “ It is not the critic who counts not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. When it came time to name her new book, Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead, Brené harkened back to a speech that Teddy Roosevelt gave in 1910.

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